Testimonials

• TLDR: I requested a session, after completing 6 jobs in 2 years. I was struggling with health issues, ego etc because of the failures. I had grown professionally - but, my fear was - I was wasting time, energy not really getting anywhere. The first insight Tushar gave me was - Do I realize I have a history of making bad decisions? Tushars directness, clear analysis - gave words to my experience. The introspection after this interaction will give me much needed insights in the coming months. I called lacking clarity on what goals to focus on. I presented 2 issues - 1. My lack of social skillsets 2. My lack of understanding regarding the interview process(coding interviews) Within 30 mins, Tushar was able to guide me to clarity- My perceptions needed refinement- 1. My social skillsets i.e. fitting in - was ok. My self-judgement needs work with a therapist. And, I'd know if the therapist honed in on acceptance. I should focus on a therapist who affirms my existence, and guides me to process my childhood trauma. 2. Tushar directed me to practise a circle of control and circle of influence worksheet. This homework would bring much needed awareness to my patterns of self-sabotage. 3. I'm currently in a spiral of self doubt, because of many failures in my career. I've got my whole life ahead, and my being a productivity freak - he figured out in this 30 mins and told me firmly - "Don't put a timeline on it. It's your life." 4. Develop a growth mindset. You fall, pick yourself up, learn and grow. 5. My work was my life. I needed to focus on finding my happiness. I.e. I'm responsible for my happiness. In my case, cut off the toxicity in my life, and focus on what's next. 6. Focus on a goal. For eg., interview preparation works when I have a big goal, that gives me energy. I've got alot of homework to do. I received clarity, and now need to execute. Sometimes, you know what to do - but in the deluge of priorities, focus, and information - you need clarity - you need someone who's way smarter than you are to organize the information and present it, so you know what you need to do is right for you, before executing on it. Thank you Tushar.