That’s probably one of the most common questions you get asked on a date...
My advice to you:
Choose someone wherein you're their want and not their need.
Let me explain:
Need often comes from a place of lack/ scarcity and when someone needs you just to feel "whole", then rest assured it is coming from a place of lack.
This usually ends in pain.
But when someone already feels grounded, content, and clear on who they are, they don’t choose you to fill a gap.
They choose you from wholeness.
From intention.
From love.
That kind of connection feels safe.
That’s the kind that lasts.
And this shift?
It changes everything:
Who you attract,
what you tolerate, and
how you show up.
So if you’re tired of dating on autopilot and want to raise your standards without raising your walls... then download this Free Dating Guide where I've explained all the steps in detail.
So many of my clients have benefited from the 4-Step Method, the Do's & Don't's and the W.H.O.L.E. framework and I want you to as well! :)
This is such an effective, no b.s. guide that I can vouch for it, it simply works! Good luck!
Cheers
Suchetha