The Hot–Cold Trap

You don’t lose him when he pulls away.

You lose him

when you start adjusting.

Softer tone.

Faster replies.

More understanding.

Less you.

You think you’re being mature.

You’re actually making it easier for him

to give you less.

Read this if you’re tired of:

Feeling calm outside but anxious inside

Thinking about him more when he gives you less

Staying longer in something that already feels off

You don’t chase.

You just don’t notice

how you slowly move toward him.