You know the feeling: you've got a completely reasonable thing to say to your manager, and somehow you still spend three days rehearsing it in the shower.
What Do I Say to My Manager? is the field guide for that exact moment. Eighteen short, specific chapters—one for every conversation you've been avoiding, from asking for a raise to admitting you screwed up to finally saying, "I think I'm burnt out." Each one gives you:
- A word-for-word script you can actually use
- A backup line for when your manager pushes back
- A short, realistic scene so you can see how it plays out
- A fast "Say This, Not That" comparison
- One clear takeaway you'll actually remember
This isn't corporate-speak or vague advice to "communicate assertively." It's the exact sentence, ready to go, so you stop guessing and start saying the thing.
Inside, you'll find the scripts for:
The Raise. The Promotion. The Mistake. The Burnout. The Time-Off Request. The Disagreement. The Feedback You've Been Sitting On. The Micromanager. The Performance Review That Felt Off. The Competing Offer. The Flexible Schedule Ask. The "I'm Thinking About Quitting" Talk. And more.
Whether you're two years into your first job or ten years into managing your own team, this book hands you the language to say what you mean—clearly, calmly, and without the three days of shower rehearsals.