Ashi Singhal

If you're in a non-IST zone, email me at [email protected] for time slots.

Most of the time, the actual problem is not what we believe it to be.

• A discipline issue can actually be a time-energy mismatch

• A career dilemma can actually be unresolved past career trauma presenting as confusion

• Fear of public speaking can actually be fear of authority or evaluation

• Productivity challenges can actually be perfectionist tendencies acting out

• Relationship issues can actually be unexpressed needs or unprocessed resentment

• Lack of motivation can actually be emotional exhaustion masked as laziness

• Indecision can actually be a nervous system trying to avoid perceived threat

These are just a few examples from my coaching sessions.

(All of these are subjective. Please don’t try to apply them directly to your own situation. The real problem statement emerges only after a deep investigation of the unconscious. And that process looks different for every single person.)

When you pursue an incorrect problem statement, you end up with incorrect solutions. Or worse, you stay stuck in the loop of: “But I’m trying my best to solve it…why isn’t this working? Maybe there’s no point in all this… sigh.”

It’s like having a stomach ache and applying ointment on your knees, because you're convinced the problem is knee pain.

When the problem statement is wrong, effort won’t fix it.

If you’re stuck in the loop of “I’m trying, but nothing is changing,” you’re welcome to book this Clarity and Direction Session where we'll get to the roots of what's actually going on. And furthermore discuss the next steps to resolve the problem.

ps: Here's what clients say about their experience of getting coached by me.